Xan & Mandela. Mandela is the first guy Xan has gotten serious about in three years. He supports her in everything she does, and she loves how much effort he has put into her and their relationship. However, for their entire relationship he has kept her hidden from his friends and family back home in Baltimore. Xan is ready to settle down with Mandela, but she can only do that after she finds out if he's hiding her, and why. kausi 03 jakso 05